KUCH TOH LOG KAHENGE ,
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To the teens who smoke or drink.
So, guys there might have been by now many labels onto your character , correct? “Spoilt” or “Besharam” , “Mannerless ” , these might be few of them. This society easily picks you up and does your character assassination.
When you are already are out there trying to figure out your messy life, aren’t you?

Now, here I won’t advocate drinking and smoking as we all know it’s injurious to health but still people anyway consume it for some or the other reason. I have written this blog for those people who judge such teens. I just wanna say that if a girl or boy smokes or drinks or stays out to party. Let them. Yes, let them do it , let them figure out their life the way they want.
Let them learn through their own mistakes. It’s their life let them experience it fully let them hit the rock bottom and get up on their own . It’s their life I repeat , it’s their journey & time, but that dosen’t gives you right to judge their character or kind of make interpretations about their life.

Today I’ll introduce you to a psychological term called as “DEFENSE MECHANISM”. This is is the kind of mechanism or ways humans use to deal with their problems in life . I’ll give you an example. A boy sees constant fights in his family he isn’t able to handle it he will use the defence mechanism of smoking or drinking just because it helps him feel better, he thinks. Similarly a girl might use defence mechanism such as being arrogant. So there are many reasons for teens to get addicted to such things , due to the unresolved issues in their personal life . Which happens with all of us, Isn’t it?
It’s just we don’t speak about it .
My point is not to advocate or support such activities but atleast not worsen their condition more , instead lend them a helping hand if you are their friends. I’ll not talk much about our parents generation because in that generation there are rarely some people who can understand our generation or our thinking. Slut Shaming a girl out of bar is so easy right . Some even think she’s open or approachable . Wow! But who gives who the right to judge her lifestyle, she might be doing it for some or the other reason obviously. That’s not her character certificate , you can’t rape her . No one’s born like that come on! No boy or girl takes birth as a drunkard, situations change them . If you don’t have an open mind to understand them I better advice to keep your judgemental asses in your pants and walk off the door.

This society is getting worse day by day in judging individuals and suffocating them , now taking examples of prostitutes. Hardly anyone in this society has respect for these women, but they can’t do anything but see themselves be humiliated as now they don’t care because whatever you call them , you won’t pay their bills or give them money to have a full time meal for life right? It’s their job, no one does it willingly it’s the situations that forces them to do so . That’s why we always emphasize the term “Education is important” and you don’t know how difficulty such individuals have to face to run a family depending on them or raise a child. So why to judge ? If you don’t like them just walk away ignore it rather than turning their lives even worse .
Same goes for transgenders. Their families wouldn’t have accepted their sexuality which forced them into begging or something else. But again’ you can’t judge someone until you are in their position or you have been in their place , experienced bad days and their struggle to get their hungry belly some relief.
My point to write this blog was only to spread a message that let’s change our way of looking at people and instantly making an opinion about their character until and unless you actually know them as a person. If you can’t help anyone atleast don’t increase their sufferings instead try helping them if you can.
Love Love Love .❤️